Too bad. We all judge. Rack through your brains and Look through the 50,000 thoughts you have running through each day. Even if it is a positive one like "oh, she's pretty long legs" "he's smart" and so on.
Through time, I actually just only started to really see and believe that judgments actually serve a great purpose in communication.
It is not invalid, but neither should it be grasped onto fully 100%. Because guess what, NO ONE is perfect!
What someone says is merely drawn based on his/her experience and IF used purposefully, can actually be a great contributor to someone's personal growth.
So speak your mind!
Just be who you are. Even if you are unpleasant, you are not responsible for how I feel , because I am bound to encounter a similar situation, where I will be broiled in the wrath of another monster of the similar sort. 😄
Your emotions are YOURS. Feeling angry, sad or hurt is alright sometimes. But always remember not to give power to the situation control over how you feel.
The person that said something to you obviously cared about you enough to make a statement, good or bad. Your value is not equal to someone's treatment to you, so don't stop loving and giving because the secret to life, is love.
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♫ Kiss Me - Ed Sheeran
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